Relationship Coach, Cristina Davy, guides women in their pursuit of love
Relationships require some skill, and most of the time these skills don’t come naturally. They must be learned.
Cristina Davy, a Dating and Relationship Coach and founder of her Love Map Dating Programs, believes that people should be armed with the skills of dating to ensure a healthy, fulfilling relationship. ‘If you want to drive a car, you don’t jump in and start driving,’ says Cristina. ‘You take lessons with someone, you practice with someone. How do you learn about relationships? Who’s teaching how to create attraction, how to create bonding?’
Cristina, a certified Neuro-linguistic practitioner, works closely with highly successful women mainly over the age of 35, guiding them on how to begin the dating process, and the traits these women should possess to ensure relationship stability and longevity. Cristina began coaching after her own tremulous relationship struggles, and her inability to trust men after surviving domestic violence.
Cristina focuses heavily on the idea of ‘feminine’ and ‘masculine’ energy. Feminine energy, as Cristina describes it, is being dynamic and open. ‘Feminine energy is when we are trying to connect with someone – when we talk, when we are being nurturing, when we are being soft and warm and affectionate.’
Masculine energy, on the other hand, is action-orientated and predictable. ‘You are focused, you are driven, you are structured and systematic,’ says Cristina.
A large problem for successful women, Cristina identifies, is that in order to be successful and high-operational within any given industry, they embody masculine energy, and take on masculine traits. ‘It becomes such a natural state of being, [successful women] don’t really understand how to make the transition into the feminine… It feels very vulnerable.’
Teaching these women the differences between the sexes is of utmost importance to guiding them through dating and relationships. Having the women aware of the dual energies enables them to make a conscious choice about the energy they want to exert, whether that be masculine or feminine.
Cristina Davy can be found at www.facebook.comaDavyDatingandRelationshipCoach
